"At fifteen life had taught me undeniably that surrender, in its place, was as honorable as resistance, especially if one had no choice." -Maya Angelou

Do not overtake where you are not certain, that it is safe (and even safer) to do so.

The Most Effective Ways to See a Person's True Personality

1. Observe their actions when they are under pressure.

2. When you give them a lot of power and responsibility.

3. Compare what they say with what they do. Never trust words alone.

4. Observe if they can keep appointments

5. Ask them for help and see if they will show up.

6. Lend them money and see if they will return it, without you reminding them about it.

7. Compliment or even flatter them to know if they play their accomplishments down and show genuine humbleness or brag about the achievements.

8. Observe if they take responsibility for their life or always looking for someone to blame in everything.

9. Observe how they behave when they are drunk or high. If they can be aggressive, emotional, look for troubles or let out any underlying issues or personality.

10. Find out their role model. Someone they are looking up to.

11. Find out the type of books they read or if they even read at all

12. Observe how they treat animals, children or anyone that does not have control over them.


13. Observe how they talk to staff, waiters, cleaners, gatemen or security people.

14. Observe how they talk about the other gender or their judgement of other sex.

15. Observe their conversations. Are they discussing things or people?